If you have decided to surprise your soul mate, choose a sensual erotic massage. With refined oils aroma and soothing music it gives an amazing sensation of touch. You would know your partner deeper and learn those parts of the body, which you might not pay much attention to.
Sensual massage doesn’t demand long training or special knowledge, but could bring a lot of fun for both of you. So, let's start?
Step 1: Place and atmosphere
Undoubtedly, the most convenient place for love is a soft bed, but for the massage you need more Spartan conditions – hard and flat surfaces. Place some blankets on the floor and arm with small pillows under the ankles and head for convenience.
You should also take care of the lighting; the light should be dim and soft. Candles placed around the room will provide more romance. Play low relaxing music for the atmosphere of enjoyment.
Step 2. Massage Oil
Massage oils would make the process more erotic , as well as make movements more pleasant and relaxing. Choose oils with aphrodisiacs to enhance the massage effect and add more sensuality with a touch of seduction. Essential oils like ylang-ylang, sandalwood, nutmeg, lavender, cinnamon can ignite the passion in both partners.
Step 3. Choose the area of massage
You do not necessarily have to hold a long lasting marathon, massaging your partner from top to toe. Focus on a few parts of the body, preferably those with the maximum number of erogenous zones.
Step 4. Technique
Start the massage with the neck and upper back, moving down on the shoulders and arms. Touching slightly with the finger-tips, move from the hands to the shoulders and join your fingers almost at the centre of the back. Move slowly downwards on the back, and pay special attention to the lower region. All your movements should be soft and smooth, however you could adding both strong and gentle pressure.
There are a few basic movements, which will be enough for an amateur massage:
- Pressing— you just need to put the palm on the desired area and make short circular movements; You can ease the pressure using your fingertips only.
- Gliding — this technique can be successfully applied both on large areas (such as the back), and small areas (the neck, palms). Joint your fingers and pressing the palm firmly to the surface of the body, make a long smooth glide. Effect can be reached not only by the technique but also massage oils smoothing your every touch. You can reduce the amplitude by doing the circular massage with the thumb.
- Loosening — this technique is suitable for "puffy" body parts like buttocks and hips. Contacting your palms with the partner’s body, squeeze the body a little. The main rule: don’t overdo as not to cause discomfort to your partner.
Step 5. All attention to feelings
Your efforts in massage, of course, very important, but don’t forget the main goal of the process in which sensations from touching is more important than the technique and expertise of the masseur. And let your massage for sure to be continued…