Usually there is no problem with the monotony in sex at the very beginning of relations. Incredible libido and overwhelming desire pushing us to have sex at any places and in various positions. Eventually things have been going stale and don’t turn you on as before.
If your sex has become monotonous and predictable, this is the alarm for changing the situation.
Let sex be something that starts your morning, ends the evening and deprives you of sleep. Have sex at a new places, in new erotic lingerie, with a new approach. After all, even the most amazing lover can become boring if you are able to predict his every step beforehand.
Take the initiative. If your partner keeps silent it doesn’t mean that she is not thinking of how to change the current course of the monotony. If you feel that you are being sucked into the routine, it is very likely that your soul mate feels the same. Do not shift the responsibility onto your partner’s shoulders; take the initiative into your hands.
Play by the sex rules. Try to add some exciting tones into your sex life, playing by the rules. It is important to remember, these rules are yours and they could be whatever you want them to be, but the main requirement – the rules by which the game is played, should be exciting for both of you. Let it be the "Night of Three Positions” today, and “Hands-free" tomorrow, and don’t forget to try the "Lucky number 69". You may not only create new rules, do away with routine – no sex in your bed for a week, no missionary position. By doing this you won’t limit your sexual life, on the contrary these mini bans will help to open new horizons and open alternatives.
Start over again. What a pleasure it is to experience feelings on the first meeting, first kiss, first sex. Allow your soul mate to feel the same once again. This role-play will help you to relive emotions experienced a long time ago and look at each other through the eyes of first love. Try to win her heart once again and you’d love it.
For Adults only. Try the more explicit approach to reach new sensations - watch erotic film together, try adult toys.
It's necessary that both partners have the same wishes, because not all would agree on such sex experiments. If you choose watching films, decide upon light erotic with a romantic plot, because rude pornography might have the opposite effect.
And do not forget about the additional caresses, romance and tender feelings, inspiring impact of which has not been cancelled yet!